Ranvir Shorey Talks About Co-Parenting With Ex-Wife Konkona | Know What Co-Parenting Is

Actor Ranvir Shorey is a contestant on Bigg Boss OTT Season 3, and in a particular instance, opened up about co-parenting his son with his ex-wife, actor Konkona Sen Sharma. In a recent episode, fellow contestant Armaan Malik and Ranvir were chatting when the latter said that he resides alone in his home, with his son Haroon staying with him half the time.

Opening up about his family dynamics, Ranvir said, “Ghar par toh akela main he hoon, matlab mera beta aadha time mere saath hota hai… Aadha time apni maa ke saath aur aadha time mere saath. Matlab bacche ke liye joh hota hai utna he (I am usually by myself, alone, at home. My son stays with me for half of the time. The rest of the time he is with his mother and the rest with me. It happens as much as required for the child).”

During the conversation, he also mentioned that he isn't currently prepared for a romantic relationship and that he feels satisfied with his work.

Ranvir Shorey and Konkona Sen Sharma as Co-Parents

Ranvir married Konkona in September 2010, and they welcomed their son Haroon in March 2011. However, they parted ways shortly thereafter. Haroon is 13 years old now. The actors continue to co-parent him. Ranvir also spoke about how his and Konkona’s residences are only about 100 metres apart, which makes it easier for them to co-parent their child. 

Celebrities opening up about their co-parenting journey is likely to encourage others to try it, when the part ways. Co-parenting is known to be beneficial for the child, in case the parents part ways. 

What is Co-Parenting?

Co-parenting refers to the shared responsibility and cooperation between parents, who are no longer in a romantic relationship or living together. It involves both parents working together to raise their children, making decisions about their upbringing, and ensuring their well-being. This continues despite a traditional nuclear family structure not existing. Clear communication, mutual respect, and a commitment to prioritising the needs and best interests of the children are seen as the cornerstones of the agreement. 

It can take various forms depending on the circumstances, including joint custody arrangements, shared parenting time, and collaborative decision-making.

Benefits of Co-Parenting 

Dealing with a divorce or separation is a tough time for the entire family, including the child. There are many emotional upheavals and readjustments that happen during the time. Co-parenting ensures access and support from both parents for the child, leading to better mental health for them.

A solid co-parenting agreement is beneficial for the child in the longer run too, to ensure the child doesn’t feel any parental void in their growing up years.